Most people these days have created a facade of being happy, instead of living life to its fullest, people are focused more on a materialistic approach to life forgetting what true joy feels like. Life has become a rope that the ton struggle to pull, they wake up, fake smiles, perform their duties with the happy mask, and years later when they reflect on their younger self, they realize they’ve never really been happy. While joy and happiness is a fundamental human emotion many of us find it difficult to experience. This consistent mindset creates an unhealthy impact on our overall well-being and quality of life. But it is also true that joy is contagious, once you’ve found yourself through it, you’ve escaped the chain of struggle and what lies ahead is the path to happiness and joy that you were afraid to approach. In this blog we will talk more about, what it is to feel truly alive and what are the little things you can do to make happiness a consistent thing in your life.
1. Self-Care and Self-Love
The true revolution starts from loving your own self. There’s no way to enjoy life if you’re locked up in a cell of self-blame. Your low self-esteem, doubts and underconfident self invites the chain of pain and agony that keeps dragging you down. Happiness and joy a concepts influenced by self-love and appreciation. Before expecting anything from anyone else, question if you’re satisfied with yourself. And if you aren’t then that’s fine too because you’ve tried your best to be the better version of yourself. Self-care is one of the essential steps in the Path to Happiness.
2. Engage yourself in Joyful Activities
Joy and positivity is in all the things that you love, don’t keep yourself separated from the events, people, or activities where you can be your true self. Doing things that we love brings us joy and fulfillment. It can be anything, including spending some time alone in peace or just partying in chaos. Live your life to its fullest whenever you can.
3. Nurture Positive Relationships
Take control of your well-being by separating yourself from all the people who bring negativity to your life, even if it’s a toxic relationship, friendship, or your relatives. Not everyone will like your way of living. But it doesn’t matter as long as you’re happy without hurting anyone or anything. Instead surround yourself with positive people, who care about your well-being, give you positive affirmation, support and advise you in tough times.
4. Learn to Let Go
Your pain is a constant reason behind you being not happy despite your efforts. Learn to let go of strong unfulfilling emotions, grudges, anger, and fear against anyone or even yourself. All these create heavy pressure and weigh us down preventing us from being truly happy. Forgive anyone who has hurt you in the past and accept it as a way of life and living. Focus on the present self, include self-care and let go of any negative emotions and thoughts. Letting go will lead you the Path to Happiness.
5. Practice Acts of Kindness
Kindness is contagious and an absolute inviter of happiness. Being rude will eventually make you feel guilty in the future. Think about all the people who have selflessly helped you in the past and forward that act of kindness to someone else. You’ll not only feel good about yourself but you’ll be a cause for the greater good.
6. Find the Humor
Laughter is a powerful way of increasing joy. Don’t take things too harshly, try to find humor anywhere you can. Watch movies, stand-up comedies, or just spend time with people who make you laugh.
7. Practice Gratitude
Gratitude is powerful to cultivate joy, take a few moments to reflect on what you’ve achieved and think about the things that you’re thankful for. You can start by writing them down in a journal or sharing them with close people.
It is important to remember happiness matters in life. It is in all the small things that you experience throughout your day and to notice them is an achievement in itself.